Through Jen's eyes...
I will never forget the day that Lauren told me she was
moving to Honduras. Lauren and I have been close friends for about 6 or 7
years and I have always felt that she would follow the Lord’s calling in her
life, no matter what the cost. So when this opportunity presented itself,
I knew that she would go, even if it meant giving up her paycheck, her
comfortable apartment with close friends and family nearby, and her ability to
live life with all of its conveniences (shopping, buying groceries, driving in
her car, etc). I knew immediately that the Lord had something amazing
planned for her, yet I remember feeling overwhelmed with joy and undeniably
saddened that she was moving far away for nearly a year.
Just a couple months ago, the Lord blessed me with the
opportunity to travel to Honduras to visit Lauren in her “new home”. I
have never been so nervous and so excited at the same time. Even though
Lauren had given me all the important “travel tips” prior to my trip, from how
to pack my bags and get my tickets, to avoiding the Honduran men who would want
to help me with my luggage in the airport when I arrived, I still didn’t really
know what to expect.
When I found my seat on the plane, I was seated right in
the middle of a young missionary group traveling from Tennessee to Tegucigalpa
to build houses. They go on this trip every year and are very
“experienced” with the ways of Honduras. I felt so comforted to have
someone to talk to for the next few hours.
As we landed in Honduras, I looked out the window and all
I could see was dirt, rows of run-down homes, mountains, trees, and a few
random fires along the side of the mountains. I remember immediately
feeling this overwhelming sense of homesickness … I was far from my comfort
zone already and I wasn’t even off the plane yet. As we touched the
ground, the runway was the only part of the ground that wasn’t dirt. I
could see roads and buildings, gas stations, and cars … all familiar things,
yet very different than they are in the States. It was scary, yet so
wonderful all at the same time because I felt connected to Lauren on a deeper
level than ever before.
We exited the plane, checked in with customs, and the
search for our luggage began. I had brought 3 suitcases full of items to
give to the families in the village, so I was going to have a lot to
carry. As I’m finding my luggage, these two guys from the missionary
group I sat with on the plane came over and offered to help me carry my bags!
What a blessing!!
We walked out with my luggage and began looking for Lauren
… there she was waiting for me with a huge bundle of my favorite flowers!! We
both began to cry as we hugged one another! I have never been more
excited to see one person in all of my life! I was in HONDURAS!! This was
going to be a great week …
The next week was AMAZING! I wish I could have videoed the
whole thing so I could remember every detail forever. The first thing we
did was go to the mall and eat Wendy’s. Definitely not how I expected to
spend my first 15 minutes in Honduras, but it was great! Then we went to the
school to see the kids. I have never been hugged so many times in 2
minutes. Wow, those children were beautiful. I cannot even begin to
describe how wonderful they were. Some of them told me they loved me
before they even hugged me. I have never felt so loved by a bunch
of total strangers. They had all made cards for me that said the most
amazing things. I felt so welcomed and so wanted. It was wonderful.
The rest of the weekend was fun; going into the village to
shop and eat local foods, hanging out around the house, going to church,
etc. We even got to dress up and go to a fundraiser for the presidential
candidate in Honduras! We were able to meet him and his wife, eat delicious
food, and listen to Honduran music. So cool!
Then the school week started. I was able to go to
school with Lauren every day. She has such an incredible talent for
working with children. Her gentleness, yet funny whit makes her an
amazing teacher. The children are drawn to her and she is so gracious
with them. The Lord is using her in such a huge way, and it was such a
blessing to be able to watch her work.
On Monday night, we went into the gang village to visit
the families and pray with the women and children. I was the most nervous
about this trip, but the Lord touched my heart more than ever before.
Though we don’t speak the same language, I was able to see the love and
gratitude that the children and the women in gang village possess. They
were so happy when we arrived and hugged me and treated me as if I had always
been there. We spent a couple hours making jewelry and just spending time
with them. I have never seen such incredible humility in all of my
life. These families have nothing. They live in concrete and
plastic homes, with little furniture and none of our “luxuries” that we take
for granted – TV, dishwashers, computers, washer and dryer, etc. Yet they
offered us food and drink the minute we arrived.
As I mentioned earlier, I brought clothes of mine from
home to give to the families and as we handed out the clothes, they were so
excited and so grateful. I almost felt guilty as I gave my things away
because I had not appreciated them nearly as much as they already did.
It was very a humbling experience to see the joy on their faces as I gave them
things that I hadn’t cared about at all. That experience has definitely
changed the way I live my life now that I have returned to the United
States. I think a lot more about spending money on material things.
Knowing that someone in another country, who I have met and know by name, does
not have the same luxuries that I have and would give anything to have one
tenth of what the Lord has blessed me with really makes me think twice about
spending money on useless things.
Right before we left the gang village, we stopped by a
house to see a family that Lauren and the other missionaries have become close
to. While we were there, one of the boys brought a small puppy in the
house and handed it to me to hold. I immediately fell in love with
her. She was so tiny and so sweet. We were informed that the dog
had been abandoned and was very hungry and would not survive if she was not
given a good home. We were told to take her with us and being the
animal lover that I am, I happily agreed. My plan was to take her back to
the States with me, but unfortunately that did not work out. We were able
to keep her for a few nights, but when it was time for me to leave, we had to find
her another home. One of the boys from the school was able to take her
home with him and his family still has her and is taking great care of her.
On Tuesday night we had a girls group at the center and
some girls who live across the street from the orphanage came over to do a
craft, eat snacks, and talk about Jesus. Unfortunately, one of the girls
had gotten in trouble and had to go home early, so this particular group was
short and sweet and I didn’t have an opportunity to spend much time with the
girls before they had to go home.
For the rest of the week I went to school with
Lauren. I was able to spend a lot of time with the kids, getting to know
each one and falling in love with them individually over and over again.
I am a speech therapist and I work with kids every day for a living. My
kids are sweet and they definitely give good hugs, but I have never met kids
who just LOVE like these kids do. I was told several dozen (yes, dozen)
times a day that I was beautiful and loved and appreciated. And they just
hug you all the time!! Lauren was able to tell me some of their stories
as the week went on. These children have been through so much, from rape
to drug-addicted parents who abandoned them; these kids have been through it
all, yet you would never know it. They are so strong and sweet. I’m
sure they have moments where they fall apart, as is expected, but what I saw
while I was there just blew my mind. Most of these kids live in the same
house together, go to school together all day long, and share rooms with one
another when they’re at home. They never get time to themselves, yet they
didn’t argue with one another (I’m sure there are times when they do, I just
didn’t see it). They each have unique and adorable personalities
that leave you wanting more. I loved hanging out with them,
laughing together, and loving on them as much as possible.
Lauren and I spent our evenings talking, napping, praying,
laughing, crying, and taking care of sweet Luna (the puppy from the gang
village). It was so nice to just be able to talk to her face to face,
instead of via text message or through the computer and to experience her “new
home” with her on a daily basis. My trip to Honduras has opened my eyes
to so many amazing things and has strengthened my friendship with Lauren in
ways I never thought possible. The Lord truly touched my heart that week
and I will hold it in my heart forever. I will never forget how the Lord
worked in both our lives and has changed us both for the better. I am
very grateful and feel incredibly blessed to have been able to get a glimpse
into the life that she lives daily. The Lord is doing great things in
Honduras.
Lauren is a beautiful girl, both inside an out, as I’m
sure you already know. The Lord has challenged her greatly in her life,
and she has always accepted each challenge graciously, even when she knows the
road ahead will be a rough one. She does not realize the impact she is
making on the children in Honduras and in the United States. She works
hard every day and gives so much of herself without ever expecting anything in
return. Please continue to support her and encourage her, as her
sacrifices are not always easy. She is eternally grateful to all of you
who have supported her emotionally, financially, and spiritually and I know she
feels unbelievably blessed by your willingness to help her along her
journey.
Through Debbie's eyes...
First I would like to thank Mama Ty, Pastor Pete, Bobby,
Julie, Mary Beth, Erika, Lisa, Denise, Crist and the children for such a
wonderful and memorable experience. I didn't know what to expect; I have
never been out of the US, but it was by far one of the greatest times in my
life. I was amazed by homes there, poverty on one side of the road and
wealth on the other. Amimals grazing along the road and many small food
stands with women cooking wonderful authenic Honduran food - which was great (
we stopped and sampled)! I was really surprised by the city - fast food
like we have at home and a huge shopping mall. I was a little uneasy to
see armed guards there, but they are there for protection. We went to
visit women at a gang village and they greeted us with open arms and
kisses on the cheek. These women are poor and have very little, but seem
happy with what they have. The children are all so beautiful! The
school is great and the children all speak English. Each one hugged us at
least a million times. They LOVE Ms. Lauren! The children made us cards
and posters, which I will keep forever. The ministry there is doing a
great service, not only in the school but in many areas in the villages and in
the prision. The only time I was really scared was when we were
traveling. There are no traffic rules and it was like dirt track racing.
Everyone drives really fast and it will scare you to death! I now
understand why Lauren has a love for Honduras and it's amazing to me the
ministry opportunities she is involved in. THANK YOU Lauren for such a
wonderful week in Honduras!!!!
Through Becca's eyes...
My trip to Honduras....where do I start? The
people…the food...the fellowship...the roads...the beauty...the new
friends???? This was a trip I will definitely never forget. I can
see why Lauren has fallen in love with it. There is so much need everywhere, but
also so much happiness and beauty. First I will start with the
school. The teachers are wonderful! Mama Ty, Pastor Pete,
Bobby and Julie, Mary Beth, Lisa and all those who work so hard for the
children are a blessing from God. The center/ orphanage is also blessed
with Erika, Debbie and Cinthia who give of themselves so unselfishly.
While we were there, we were given the job of organizing the library. I
had a wonderful time! That's the closest I'll ever be to becoming a
librarian. Bookshelves were made and we color-coded the books. The
children were so beautiful. We got hugs and kisses, a party, cards and
they were always tagging along after us. Their little faces will always
be in my mind and heart.
We also went to the gang village. We took beads so
they could make necklaces and bracelets. They were all waiting for us in
the street. The people there all kiss you and smile a lot. Their
children were so clean. The women are so grateful for anything you
do. Everyone loves Lauren. She knows a lot of them by name and
where they live. It brought tears to our eyes when we saw how little they
have, but they are proud of what they have. Norma, one of the ladies,
made a rice and chicken dish for us. It was very good and she was so
proud to serve us. That was the most heartbreaking day I spent.
Now, food...we had some wonderful and different food
there. Some came from restaurants, Lauren's kitchen or made out on the
side of the road. I loved everything. We met Denise and Crist, a couple
Lauren knows, and they were like someone you have always known. They will
always be lifelong friends. We ate at their house on Friday before we
came home.
The roads were awful. No rules of the road.
Some were dirt with no gravel. If it rained they were slick mudholes.
Everyone went where they wanted.....driving really fast and passing in curves
or whatever. Horses and cows grazed on the side of the road, and people
walked like they were perfectly safe.
Lauren, you have made a big sacrifice in your life,
but now I can see why. God bless you and all the generous-hearted people
who give of themselves to help these poor, but happy people. I know this trip
has given me a different way of looking at how blessed I am to have what I have
and to live where I do. There is so much to tell that I can't possibly
tell it all, but my adventure in Honduras with my family was one of the best
times I've ever had. I'm so lucky to have had the opportunity to
go. Lauren, can't wait to see you. Love you!!
Through Mike and Donna's eyes...
What a great trip and wonderful experience it was! We were
overwhelmed at the extent of the poverty, and at the same time, amazed at how
friendly, clean and proud the Honduran people were. Everywhere we went they all
wanted us to visit their home, and when we did visit, they wanted to show us
great hospitality. Even though they may have very little for their own family
to eat and drink, they wanted to be sure each of us had something to eat and
drink. We did not need to speak Spanish to understand their warmth and
sincerity.
Spending time with the kids, teachers and other ministry
personnel was an extra special blessing and something we will always remember!
The driving was a wonderful experience for me, but probably not so much for
Becca and Debbie. No speed limit, no painted lines and people passing three
wide on a two lane road and we never saw an accident. This is an area where we
could definitely learn from the Hondurans (just kidding). I hope Becca and
Debbie will forgive me but when you are told to keep up with the car in front
of you and you have no way to communicate with them, you have to keep up.
Mom and I want to close by saying how incredibly proud we
are of you (Lauren) and the work you are doing to serve our God! We are
blessed to be your parents. Since this is going on your blog, we also want to
thank all those that have supported you with their prayers and finances! There
are goers and senders and to all you senders thank you for helping our daughter
be a goer for God! Your support is being used in many very special ways!
Through Leia's eyes...
At first when my sister Lauren told me she was considering
moving to Honduras for a year to do missions, to be honest I was mad and upset.
She told me she felt that it was what God wanted her to do, but I was confused
and angry at God for taking my sister away from home. For a while I was angry
and upset, but then I saw what great things she was going to be doing and I was
so proud that MY sister was soon going to be doing such wonderful things so far
away from home! When my family and I took our trip to Honduras to visit my
sister, immediately I fell in love with the atmosphere, the people, my
surroundings and I instantly knew why she wanted to move there. I had the best
time and I'm so proud of Lauren and all the wonderful things she is doing and
the people she has touched! I am so extremely grateful that God blessed me with
such an amazing sister with such great faith and such a big heart to help
others! I fully support her in what she does and I'm so glad she got the
opportunity to move to Honduras! She is making a bigger difference then
she will ever know! I love you, Lauren!
Below are pictures of the many deserving individuals and families who received shoes and clothing. Thank you to Canton First Baptist Church, Jen and my family for donating and providing financial support for this specific mission! The faces say it all...